Miss Bumbum Candidate And 18 Relationships In 12 Hours: Is It Normal?

 

A Miss Bumbum contestant reveals something about her intimate life, sparking discussion about a worrying addiction.

Talking about the Miss Bumbum contest means talking about toned buttocks that try to stand out from the rest. But there are also daring statements by candidates that are making headlines. This is the case of Débora Gomes, representing Góias at the event. She has gone public and said that her sexual record is 18 relationships in just 12 hours. Which is leading to the question: Is it normal?

As Metrópoles points out, a sexual appetite considered excessive is seen as a disease. Speaking to the Brazilian website, psychologist and sex therapist Alessandra Araújo emphasizes that realizing whether a person is addicted to sex can take a long time and be very complicated. ‘Sex addiction, known as compulsive sexual behavior, is characterized by a constant obsession with sexual activities that interferes with daily life, causing emotional and physical suffering, and negatively impacting relationships, work and other aspects of life,’ she explains.

When sex takes the place of other activities

The expert also says that in order to understand if you are addicted to sex, you should analyze how much time sex occupies your thoughts. And whether it takes the place of other important activities, such as work and relationships. ‘If you're constantly involved in thoughts about sex, even when you should be focussing on other responsibilities, this could be a warning sign,’ he says. ‘If you notice that you resort to sex as an escape valve for emotional problems or as a way of avoiding dealing with personal issues, this could be an indication of problematic behavior,’ she adds.

Seeking help is important

There are other aspects to take into account. ‘It's common for sex addiction to also cause social isolation. The person may start to withdraw from friends and family, preferring to be alone. Or engage in sexual behavior that ends up consuming a large part of their time and energy,’ explains Alessandra Araújo. She goes on to recommend seeking help from a psychologist or therapist specializing in the subject. ‘Recognizing that you may have a problem is the first step towards finding a path to recovery and balance, allowing you to lead a fuller, healthier life without sex becoming a burden,’ she concludes.