Many men believe they are true gods in bed. And reality does not always resemble what they think. And those who say it are women. They have no problem admitting that there are behaviors they adopt during sex that are not exactly the ones they like most. To be honest, they really hate them doing 9 specific things. Find out what they are and that way you won't make the mistake of doing something you think is good when in reality she hates it.
1 – It takes a long time to reach orgasm
Forget those sexual relationships you see portrayed in movies. Always remember this is a movie. The truth is, after half an hour women start to get dry. What was giving pleasure turns into a nuisance. When this happens there are two options: take a break or use a lubricant to continue.
2 – It takes a short time to reach orgasm
From one end we jump to the other. If they don't like it taking too long, they hate it taking too little time. It's like going into a candy store and leaving a second later without touching anything. Believe that disappointment is guaranteed.
3 – Ignore foreplay
Foreplay is one of the most important words in a sexual relationship that you want to have a good one. And this must be present in the minds of all men. Because they take longer than them to become stimulated. And always remember that foreplay is a two-way street. Don't be selfish and don't just think about yourself.
4 – Push her head
The truth is that there are men who don't know how to tell their partner that they want oral sex. And when faced with this situation, they opt for the most wrong option of all: pushing their head down. There is nothing worse than this. Remember that communication is very important. And you shouldn't be ashamed to ask for something that gives you pleasure. And you can also offer first what you want to receive. As the previous point says, foreplay is for both of you.
5 – Not a driver!
We already talked about communication. And we reinforce it again because it is an important point for couples. You should always say what you like and what gives you the most pleasure. If you don't like the way she gives oral sex, don't think that driving her head is the best solution. What you have to do is talk to her. Because women hate men who grab their heads during oral sex.
6 – Now I won’t kiss you
Another of the worst things a man can do to a woman is refuse to kiss her after oral sex. By doing this he sends a message of “disgust” to the woman. And as he easily understands, she won't like this attitude at all.
7 – Miss the hole
It's still a taboo topic, but something that a lot of men do. During sex, especially when the choice is the position on all fours, there are men who like to “fail” the hole. Believing that they don't know it was on purpose. If you have a desire to try anal sex, talk to her about that desire. You remember the importance of communication, right?
8 – It is not a pornographic film
Let's not beat around the bush. Imitating what you see in a pornographic film and treating women like a whore is a big mistake. Unless it is something established and accepted by both before sex. It's important that you know her limits, just as she should know hers. This way, awkward moments are avoided.
9 – Deafening silence
The expression deafening silence is used in many situations. And in sex too. If you go through the entire relationship without making a single sound that reveals what she's feeling, she'll never know if she's enjoying it. If you like to know if she is enjoying it, believe that she also wants to know what she is feeling.
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